Don't Linger

I have a few words to say to my beautiful sisters: 1 If a man is interested in you, you are not compelled to return that interest.  Approach relationships prayerfully and wisely(reading Christian material on relationships helps understand what scripture says, I recommend it), and do not be pulled into a relationship because you feel lonely, you could still feel lonely in a relationship.

2 A man might be interested in you today, and not tomorrow, it happens.  When this happens, as much as his attention might have made you feel good, you have to pay little attention to him.  I'm not saying ignore the man, just do not linger around him because he will become irritated by you(I heard this from a man).  So as he distances himself from you, do the same, with no hard feelings.  Later on, when you are both clear that there is absolutely nothing happening between you, the friendship you might have had before might be restored and things won't be awkward anymore.  The Good Life is a lot about being patient.

3 Finally, be happy!  Let God's joy be your strength always, and rejoice in Him always.  This is an order and we must live by it.  Make the most of every day you have, every person in your life and the great opportunities before you.  There is a lot you have going for you, so don't mope around, REJOICE!

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