While You Are Single

While you are single, read your favourite books, talk to your mirror reflection, take lots of photos of you, have your occasional tub of ice cream to yourself, spend time with your friends, babysit for your sisters, keep a diary.  There is so much to enjoy in being single, these things will become a luxury once you are married so just have them in abundance now.  You can add to the list, I bet there are many more things that you can get up to in your single days.  Nurturing your spirit, soul and body not only makes you a better person for you and for your spouse(-to-be), it keeps your mind focused on all the right things.  Many single ladies waste time fantacising about their dream wedding, their ideal husband and so forth, so much that they lose themselves in unrealistic worlds and end up having difficulty appreciating the husband they eventually meet.  Remember that you attract who you are.  Prepare yourself to be the best you can be and you will meet the best man for you.  if you are spiritually empty, don't bother praying for a spiritually charged man, rather spend time building your relationship with God and allowing Him to mould you into a virtuous woman.